We are frequently faced with the question
“What is this life?” To understand this question we need to first distinguish
between Life and ‘Life - style’. There is an distinction that between the two.
Most of the time we think that life style and life are one and the same, when
they are not! Life-style is associated with the external while Life is associated
with the internal, which is within one.
We often are in the quest of looking to
make our lives happy, and seek external sources to quench our thirst. In
wanting to make life happy we seek from our material surroundings. We think we
will be happy when we have a secure job, we will be comfortable when we have a
shelter above our head.
When we achieve that, we are not satisfied
and we look for enhancing what we have got, thinking “this will make us happy”.
We look for promotions within the job, are it in position or monetary increment
and we look to renovate our houses thinking the extra room or a better kitchen
is what we need.
Thus this spiral of wanting more which we conveniently
term need, leads to greed, while all the time we are still in search of that
elusive happiness, which is within. Thus we need to understand that what we
think will make us happy in life, is actually our ‘Life-style’ which only
provides a temporary illusion of happiness till we start wanting more.
Life on the other hand requires one to go
within and live in the moment, in complete faith that one will be provided for
without wanting or asking, it prompts one to learn that happiness is not a
destination that we seek but the stations that you get along the path. Being
present in the moment and appreciating the thoughts in the present thereby freeing
us from the thoughts of the past or the future.
Life teaches simplicity which no longer is
a convention but an invention! ‘Life-style’ is getting caught in the outer
noise!, While life is listening to the inner voice. ‘Life-style’ recognizes the
one who has the most, while life supports one who needs the least.
Looking outside we dream, looking within we
awaken, looking outside we analyze, looking inside we realize. We need to
understand that the eyes offer sight while the heart offers insight.
The next time that you are faced with the
question “What is this life”? Distinguish between ‘life – style’ and ‘life’
before looking for the answer, and seek answers from within rather than from
the outside.